It is all in the facial expression. If you can project the right expression at the right time and place, people will connect to you better, reading the unspoken messages, written all over the face. I do not know why, but I think I am one of those retarded guys who portray all the wrong kinds of signals through my unconventional body language. I do not know how, but things just happened, and there are times they got so messy that I would bang my own face flat on the brick wall for projecting the wrong kind of expressions.
The usual me…
The serious me..
I am one of the very, very smiley person. I smile a lot, I smile wide, I reveal a lot of my
not so white teeth. I guess this is just a habit, whether I am with my close friends or just anyone new, I would smile like I am asking for sex candy or ice-cream. Some people find my regular smile rather heart warming and charming. Unfortunately, there are quite a number of people who think that I smile too much and because of that, I am branded a weirdo to some extent. Those people would come up to me and shoot right at me “Oii, why are you smiling so much ah? So excited for what? Sheeessshh Gila..….”… Celaka.. smile also kenak snapped at…
On the other hand, when I do not smile, which is a very rare occasion, it does not necessarily mean I am in a bad mood or unhappy!! Maybe it is because I smile so often and casually that people start to think if I do not smile I must have slept at the wrong side of bed or swallowed a spoon or something. Come on people, give me a break, there are times that I could be too tired or sleepy.. yes it shows, but it does not mean I have problems or issues like I will die if I do not smile in the next couple of minutes.
Some people think its hard reading my emotions, since I have the same smiling expression on most of the times. Misleading as this can be.. allow me to share some tips if you want to understand me by my appearance.
This is me..being CHEERFUL
This is me.. STRESSING OUT
This is me.. DOWN and SAD
This is me.. BORED and DAYDREAMING
This is me.. errrmm.. errmm..
Why do I smile always? Simply because I know most people would smile back at me if I smile at them first. I find simple and plain joy in seeing other people smile. Smile can mean so many things. It can be a welcome, or a gratitude, or simply showing delight and joy of seeing and being with another person, or a mask to seal away all the sorrow and pain deep inside. Whatever the reasons and purposes of a smile may be for any person, smile makes that person hundred times more beautiful.
So guys, keep that wide smile on alright? You shine when you smile.
Side Note: Alright, obviously I was very bored at work today, nothing better to do but camwhore. Something did happen however, when I loaded the last picture of me sucking my finger.. one of my work-mates walked by and accidentally saw it on the screen. I swear her eyes popped out and her jaws dropped clear down the floor.